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When it comes to sex between two women, there are a lot of myths out therelike that "real" sex must be penetrative, P-in-V involving a penis or strap-on, or that all lesbians looooove to scissor and pretty much do only that in bed. And it doesn't help that so much mainstream and pornographic coverage of lesbian sex is catered to the male gaze, making it seem like it only exists as foreplay for a straight guy, or that it only ever happens between two cisgender, femme women. But the truth is, there is so much more to lesbian sex than any of those things.
We asked—and these ladies answered. This position allows me to adjust the pressure I want. Another woman, year-old Mia, is also a fan. When it comes to oral sex moves, 69 is at the top of the list.
Cosmopolitan: a beacon of light for those seeking strange and potentially dangerous sex advicebut only in heterosexual relationships. Well, not anymore. In an effort to stay progressive and promote LGBT equality perhapsthe notorious women's magazine is finally offering sex tips that have nothing to do with penises but double to do with female pleasure.
Ever heard of the lesbian kama sutra? That said, what are some tantalizing lesbian sex positions all lesbian, bisexual, or bicurious women can try? Per Reddit, self-identifying lesbian women spill the juicy deets.
Sex is good; better sex is great. One of my favorite ways to make good sex great is in switching things up a little bit. The way we shape and shift our bodies to fit to one another can be one of the most fundamental parts of sex and intimacy.
Sex between two women is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately, there's a lot of misinformation out there. So when two people with vulvas are having sex, I think a lot of folks don't understand how that works since there's no penis. To clarify some misconceptions — and, of course, to give women who have sex with other women some hot ideas — I rounded up a list of fun sex position suggestions.
But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off-limits, and all askers remain anonymous.
Some may argue that lesbian sex can really only occur in a few positions in the first place — but those people in particular could benefit from this list. Additionally, they have to be useful with or without toys. Take a look at the top 10 positions that should be added to your repertoire immediately! This is best suited for partners who are similar in size, or where one partner is smaller in which case the smaller partner will probably choose to be on tophowever if there is a fair amount of trust in your relationship, it can go either way.