In her weekly column, she gives Complex readers insight into what today's young women really think about love, sex, and relationships. Ah, anal sex! Once the excitement of oral and standard piping wears off, back-door entry becomes the last item an average dude hopes to check off his sexual to-do list.
Everyone has their own sexual desires — but not everyone likes to talk about them, feeling ashamed or embarrassed, worried that they may be judged. But in reality, loads of us share the same sexual desires. One sexual desire, for many men, is for a finger to be inserted into the anus.
This wasn't the first time my girlfriend had tried to stick a finger up my butt, and it wouldn't be the last. I breathed. I'm a bisexual man, and I had bottomed once before with a man.
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You can touch my butt, but not the hole. Just anal messing around. Defining our terms seemed important, since these are genres of sex that people get extremely touchy about, so to speak. Consider yourselves warned, squeamish readers.
While she may have been a little surprised, at first, Abbi did ultimately strap on the dick and give it to her boo just the way he wanted it. But butt play can be scary for the uninitiated. Unlike the vagina or mouth, the butt obviously does not self lubricate and it can be scary to figure out how, exactly, you should go about putting stuff up there.
For all you ladies out there, you can still achieve that "O" face through anal action because, according to Dr. Van Kirk, "two inches on the upper wall for women is where you'll find the glands. Some women refer to it as an anal orgasm," she continues. If you're a woman interested in trying something new with her man, this guide will enlighten you on some proper donk-iquette.